What do people who think of themselves as successful have that sets them apart from the ones that see themselves as a failure? Is it self-esteem? Is it confidence? Or could it be perhaps optimism? Are they sometimes delusional? Or do they simply have low expectations of themselves? Read on to find out.
Your roadmap to success is called LOVE
Success, as most other things in the world, is a subjective thing. Two people may be in the exact same situation, say financially, but one of them may deem themselves successful while the other one may think of themselves as a financial failure. In fact, you may not consider someone to be financially successful and yet that person may think they are super successful. And as we all know, how you feel about your life is what matters, not how other people think you should feel.
So now the question is: What do people who think of themselves as successful have that sets them apart from the ones that see themselves as a failure? Is it self-esteem? Is it confidence? Or could it be perhaps optimism? Are they sometimes delusional? Or do they simply have low expectations of themselves?
In my view, the perception of personal success is neither an expression of stupidity nor of some kind of limitless self-belief. Rather, personal success is a product of self-love.
Practicing deep self-love works on several fronts to guarantee your personal success. Firstly, it transforms your experience of who you actually are. And who you are is a divine being, perfection in all sorts of imperfect forms and shapes. As a result, your confidence and self-esteem go up, you become more optimistic and you start celebrating not only the big achievements but life in general. You see yourself as a success. Secondly, practicing self-love sends out a constant message to the universe: “I am worth it, please award me”. And the Universe responds accordingly. You start attracting experiences and manifest achievements that reflect your worthiness.
Now, is the road to self-love a difficult one? It is, if you say so. But it doesn’t have to be. Start small by saying “I love myself”. No matter how fake it sounds, be consistent with it and the message will eventually get through to your core. If you want to take the short-cut, choose a therapy that works directly on the subconscious. This could be BodyTalk, EFT, Psych-K, NET or various types of subliminal meditations. And get this: experiencing self-love is not only going to help you feel successful; it will also help you experience true love for another human being. You can’t love someone else if you don’t love yourself first. Likewise, you can’t be loved by other people until you can love yourself. So don’t think that self-love is a selfish thing. Quite the contrary – learning to love yourself is actually the most altruistic act you could perform. If we all cultivate self-love, we will all be capable of loving others and feeling successful in life at the same time.